4 ideas to help international families with childcare

One of the main issues that I have found as a mum living in a foreign country, away from friends and family back home, is that simple things like babysitting can become complicated experiments, or childcare like a juggling act. When you have been living in a place for most of your life, there are always trusted neighbours or family friends that are helpfully unemployed or retired, and have time to babysit or take the children off your hands for a bit of me time.

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1. One thing that has worked in the past for one of my friends was a babysitting circle. Granted, it takes time to get to know people you can trust with your children, however, most people who have their babies in the same area will be invited to anti-natal or post-natal courses, where you can meet other mums and future friends. This is how my friend, Linda, met the people who would go on to become her babysitting circle. They worked a system of vouchers, the more babysitting you did, the more vouchers you had, and then you could spend then getting your children babysat.

2. Keeping the tally can be difficult, and mistakes can be made. Nowadays, the babysitting circle has gone one step further. In my area, we have set up a babysitting circle on a website called MyNightOff. This is a website accessible from any computer, each participant has their on login details, receiving emails when a new babysitting request is placed, so they can go on the site and accept the request. The site administers the credits, everybody starts with the same number, and then one earns or spends credits babysitting or asking for baby-sitting.

 

3. Nanny-sharing is also a solution that many people use. If you can’t afford regular full-time nurseries, and grannies and granddads live too far away, nanny-sharing may be a good solution. Nannies tend to be more expensive per hour that childminders or nurseries, but they are more flexible, look after the kids in your own home, so there is no rush to get them to the childcare, and if you share the care with a neighbour, it can actually work cheaper. Besides a nanny can pick up your older kids from school and take them back home. For international families, it can also be helpful if they can find a nanny who speak their language to help strengthen the minority language at home.kids-785727-m

4. Swap day time sitting with trusted friends from playgroup or neighbours. Sometimes, other mums around may work from home, or be full-time mums, but needing a break or time free to run some errands.